I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 5 years now, and I’m just not sure we match up in the bed to be honest I for one am very the opposite of vanilla and she is super vanilla. I love her for so much more than just sex but to be honest sex is a very important part of a relationship for me and I’m just scared I’m already getting sexually frustrated what will it be like in 10-15 years when we’re married. I really want to stick it out that’s why I’m looking for hope that our sexual relationship will evolve into something that suits us both.

I’m just curious if anyone else has been in a similar situation and eventually their sexual relationship evolved to suit all parties. I’d really like to hear some personal accounts.

TLDR I’m getting sexually frustrated and looking for personal accounts of people in the same situation.