I feel like everyday is a game of roulette with my partners mood. She sulks, sits on her chest home, grunts at me and honestly hardly ever listens to anything I say. I genuinely feel like I treat her like a queen, nearly every morning its coffees woken up with affection, brought for dinners and I cover nearly everything that we do together.

She speaks down to me, tries to make me out to be stupid all the time when she is in a bad mood and I have honestly had enough of this bullshit tension when I feel like I give so much.

An example of how I feel things are thrown in my face. She wanted to babysit a dog, and I’m okay with that. The weekend we are babysitting the dog, there’s a party at a friend’s house to which we are invited. She wants to go so I said I’ll drive us and bring the dog. She gave me an address too put in maps 5554 and I accidentally typed 5545.

When I arrived to the location ten doors down, she freaked and started half shouting the address at me like I was stupid. This is just one example from an uncountable number of occasions. Her excuse for talking down to me is that she is hormonal, and I simply think that is not a good enough excuse. I am beyond patient with her but I really think that I’ve been broken down at this point.

This is how her mother treats her step dad. Explosive and really unnecessary bursts of aggression. What can I do, or is this just how she is going to be?