So basically me (22f) and my boyfriend (23m) finally met after months and he was calling himself my boyfriend and love bombing me and complimenting me like crazy. ( he always really wanted to have sex with me even though i said multiple times like 20 times im not ready for that) We made it official and literally yesterday on halloween he cancelled our plans and i had a major freak out (he didn't know i did ) but i did tell him he needed to make up for this, it's my favorite day or the year and i was excited to spend it with a partner for the first time in my life. He basically never really apologized just was dry asf the whole day. being active but not checking my message

so the next day i didn't text him the whole day just took some space to myself and then texted him at night time. saying i hope your day was great, goodnight i adore you. 5 hours later at 1am (he loves to respond super late even though he's active and sees i messaged him ) he sends me this message. "I fell asleep my bad. This isn't really cuz of u but with the shit that happened the other night, I started thinking bout us and I think we need to just be cool and be friends for now. Ik u wanna be together and all but there's so much that goes on in ppls lives in general and such that 2 days ain't really enough and should've waited tbh"

I haven't responded yet because i know i have issues with my emotions. me blowing up is exactly what this toxic person wants me to do. how do i respond to this and move on ? I mean i don't really care im used to being love bombed then ahosted but how do i respond properly