Okay the real title I wanted to put on here is does my boyfriend ever love me or has it all just been purely sexual? (But for some reason they wouldn’t let me post that). So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 months now. I know it’s not a super long time, but me and him have had an amazing relationship until very recently within the past couple weeks. Now I had never once thought our relationship was just purely sex, but now it’s kind of been on my mind a bit. I mean I feel like I was naive to NOT be thinking that since we literally started dating because we hooked up one night, but it wasn’t like some one night stand type of situation. Me and him were friends for years before that happened and we were both drunk when we hooked up, so I was a little surprised when he actually wanted to be in a relationship. He’s been the greatest boyfriend since then though and he has always been there for me emotionally, so I’ve never questioned whether or not our relationship was genuine until now.

So the big issue happened yesterday when we hung out, things were super weird. So for context, we’re both in college at two different universities that are fairly close to each other, only about a 30 minute drive. Anyway, he picked me up at my dorm and my roommates happened to not be there at the time because they were out helping our RA with a Halloween event. However, I suspected they would be coming back literally any second cause they told me they were coming back at night and by that time, it was already around 10pm. Anyway, once my boyfriend knew my roommates weren’t there, he was trying to get me to have sex in my room but I was super hesitant and I said no way since I want to be considerate of them and I knew they could be walking in really soon. After that, he was super annoyed the whole night and literally didn’t talk to me at all. It was so so weird because I had never seen him like that before in our whole 7 months of dating. Then, he started having a pity party and was saying stuff to me like how depressed he was and how he wasn’t the right guy for me because “I wasn’t attracted to him anymore” and almost going as far as breaking up with me, basically saying how sex was the only thing he needed right now. I kicked him out and haven’t spoken to him since, he’s been texting me today and telling me how sorry he is, but like wtf??! I had never really rejected having sex with him before, and this is how he reacts?! In his small defense, we hadn’t seen each other in almost three weeks before this because we had both gotten really sick a while back and then we got caught up with school work, so I understand why he would be extra horny but goddamn like he’s really gonna go THAT far?