I know the title sounds a bit weird, but like anyone, both of us have our fair share of problems in life, plus relationship issues, and her solution to everything is to cry about it, which is healthy but she never does anything after the crying, she just feels really bad about things and I always need to kick in and do everything to solve things out for her personal life, for my personal life, for our relationship, everything. When I spoke to her about this, she just said that no one asked you to do anything for me, but the issue is, her approach to everything ends up being so harmful, because a tiny fight, if I don’t solve, will result in her just breaking up because she just cannot solve any problems that come up.

Recently, I’ve been under a lot of work pressure, I sound really mean saying this but I can’t take on solving every issue for another person and myself because life is tough.

What makes it worse is that she won’t communicate, ever, so I have to guess what the problem is, and then guess what she actually hopes for me to do, and if I get it wrong, there’s a new problem at hand.

Today, I was under a shit ton of stress and I was insanely overwhelmed and I just said that I need an hour to myself but I don’t know what to do anymore cause it’s really really tiring.

What can I do to solve this?

Please don’t suggest breaking up