So my girlfriend and I have been together for almost one year now, and there have been some instances when she has made comments or her reactions towards her celebrity crushes have made me feel disrespected or insecure, and I would like some advice on how to handle that. I'll give some examples:

1. She has said that she thinks that a certain actress/singer is her idea of perfect woman looks wise. This celebrity happens to be all the opposite of who I am.

2. She once called this singer's mom her mother in law, which sucked 'cause this lady doesn't even know she exists and my mom even lent her money without hesitation so she could pay for her degree.

3. On her birthday, I got a cake with her favorite/celebrity crush photo on it and her reaction made me feel quite disrespected, 'cause she kept saying how she wanted to "save" his face to kiss it and saying that was her husband. This was in front of (my) friends and family.

I know it's probably stupid but it's really bothersome. I too have a few celebrity crushes but I refrain from making any type of fuss about it because I know she would feel bad if she heard me saying anything like that.

So I come to you hoping I could have some advice or something to not let it make me feel bad. Thanks :)