So I've in a relation with this girl for past 6 months and she's really the flirtatious type , we would often flirt like when she sent me a pic of her newly done nails I said I'd love to put a ring on it or how many kids would u want that kinda flirts . But even though how flirty she is she often backs off when I try to touch her , she did explained once that she comes from a catholic family and she's not really comfortable with these before marriage . But one night when she was at my place we both were kinda drunk not that much that I'd lose my consciousness, she made a move on me and I didn't rebuke . When I woke up tomorrow I couldn't find her beside me rather i saw her message that she left early . Later she called me , she seemed sad , " I should have not done that , I should have not drank in the first place " as she said this she started crying. She took a pause and said but it's alright right ? We r gonna marry anyways " after this day she would often bring the topic of marriage . I realised that she is not flirting anymore but I didn't had the guts to say anything. After a month of this incident she asked in a flirty tone so when r u going to come to my house to ask for my hand . It was hard but I said that I'm not ready for marriage matter of fact I don't plan on marrying till 30 or so . I was gonna say more but she slapped me and left but I didn't say anything I knew she was angry . Later that night she came to house as soon as I opened the door she hugged me and started crying that she is sorry for hitting me and that she can wait a few years for marriage i consoled her and made her sleep . I'm writing this as she is sleeping now , I don't know what to do , i just started my bachelor life i want to enjoy it more also I'm not in my life where I want to be financially, tho she said she willing to wait but I would feel guilty making her wait 4-5 yrs .