I can never find anybody that's actually wanting a relationship with me. I don't understand what the issue is. I may not be the most perfect man in the world, but I like to think that I'm a solid guy. I'll always pay for dates, I'll give thoughtful gifts of things that I know they have interest in, I'm understanding, affectionate, and super sweet. I just want to fall in love with somebody and grow old with them. I get that's not going to happen with the first girl I find, but I can't seem to get anybody in a serious relationship. I just don't get it. I can find women that like me and will go on dates with me without too much struggle. I'll take a girl out on a sweet date, and we both express how much fun we had. We'll go on more and more dates until it gets to the point where we both express that we have feelings for each other and love hanging out with one another. Around this time, I'll just get left on delivered and essentially ghosted for no reason at all. It happens every time, and now I'm stuck between am I the problem, or do I just go for the wrong women? I'm just flabbergasted at this point because this has happened on repeat for the last three years in which I meet a girl, we hang out a lot, maybe even sleep with each other, and after we develop feelings they just vanish out of my life. I've been talking to this new girl for the last two months and she's great. However, she hasn't responded to me in about five days, so I'm figuring that she's probably ghosting me now too. She even proposed plans for us to get together this weekend, but seems like that might not be happening judging how she won't give me 30 seconds out of her day to text me back. I understand people get busy and shit happens, but I'd like to imagine there would be at least 30 seconds of free time over the course of five days to send a simple "Hey, sorry I'm super busy, everything is fine between us! I'll text you when I get the chance." This shit is just irritating because I really really like this girl and envision a future with her. I guess I just want some help on how do I actually find women that want a real relationship. It just feels like I'm being used for money or sex and once they get what they want, they leave. It's been killing my self esteem and I just feel like an object with no value at this point.