For starters, yes I live at home with family still. My family is very cultural and religious and while I respect everything they believe, there might be a fine line I don’t agree with.

My mother specifically has been always on me ever since I’ve started dating my partner it’s come to the point where even visiting her has turned into fighting. And for background information we’re long distance for the last year or so and my mom and I keep getting into fights if I ever even say I wanna visit her. The last thing I wanna do is make my mom believe I’m disrespecting her and our own family. I’d like to believe I’ve been good about things and respected everyone around us. No my partner does not follow the same religion or culture and that could play a part.

But at some point is it considered sabotaging my relationship because of this. And I’m just lost rn on what to do and having a conversation with my mom is borderline impossible about this stuff.

And I get I should defend my girlfriend or just not be in a relationship bc it’s not fair to anyone, but is there any advice or anything anyone can offer?

No moving out isn’t an option rn either. And no, there’s no family I can talk to about this either.