We’ve been dating for 2 years but she’s changed a bit since we met, she’s a lot more reserved and less open minded with me now and seems to have no real desires or wants when it comes to our relationship. I love her loads I genuinely do but I can’t help but feel like I’m wasting my time a bit as I’m not really getting what I need. I’m still young and in uni and I’m pretty reckless, I like to get drunk and go out and I have a very active sex drive which I feel is normal at this age, however she doesn’t rlly drink and is never down to go out and get drunk , she’s just sort of content with staying home playing video games every weekend.

I know it sounds shallow but what I’m trying to say is I’m young and it’s feeling like we’re a married couple. I have tried and tried to communicate this to her in a healthy way but not much has changed and I don’t want to pressure her to change herself for me.

If the relationship was open and I could go out with someone who matched my energy a bit more I think it might solve this problem but I’m not sure , and she definitely won’t agree with it but idk what to do , I don’t want to break up with her over something that seems so shallow

I’m not even worried about her being with other guys in fact it might even make her a bit more passionate about our relationship.

I don’t want to sacrifice 90% trying to look for 10% but I just can’t get this off my mind especially now I’ve started a new year at uni and I’m being invited places by girls it feels good and exciting , something I haven’t felt in a while in my relationship

I know you’re all just gonna tell me to break it off but I seriously love this girl and she’s my best friend I just can’t help who I am and I’m still young :/

The last thing I wanna do is fuck her over completely , we’re very close and we’re a big part of each others lives , we’re there when we need each other and that’s important to me but I also can’t let myself continue to want after other women while I’m in a relationship. I can’t remember the last time she wanted to have sex with me without me asking , I don’t think we’ve ever had drunk sex and it’s so stupid but I love drunk sex 💀💀💀 we’ve maybe had sex 10 times this year and it rlly bothers me

Any advice would be rlly appreciated this is something I can’t figure out by myself