A little context, I have found my girlfriend texting her most recent ex, she is sending old videos of them together, telling him she wishes she could go back and change things, talking about her eating and sleeping, and this is after I asked her if she could block him because it made me uncomfortable. So she unblocked and started texting after I asked her not to. She has him on multiple platforms, and I got a message from an unknown number letting me know of this, and when I asked her to show me her phone I saw it all. This morning I told her it was bothering me, and she started yelling about how she is tired of giving reassurance and validation. And that made me pop off and started telling her that something like this needs validation and how I haven’t been feeling like I have been getting 100% in the relationship and how not texting your exes is a clear boundary I’m setting up for myself in this relationship , and I asked if she was gonna continue texting him and she said “i don’t know I’m a grown ass woman” and I said that I don’t think I can be with her if that’s the case and she said “bet I’ll be over to get my stuff later” and hung up. and now I feel like I was being dramatic. I feel like i should have handled it better and not popped off the way I did, I just got very upset and wanted the validation from my girlfriend which I didn’t think was much to ask