So earlier this year my gf and I broke up before she went to camp America. I didn’t tell anyone in my family because we had talked about starting things again when she got back. We struggled at first when she got back and the first time we saw each other there wasn’t any fireworks. It came time for the holidays and my mum asked what we were doing, I told her things weren’t going good and we weren’t together. Later that evening this girl finally came back to me, saying she was 100% keen and ready to be the best girlfriend ever etc etc. it made me angry because I had just told my mum. She lives in a different town. And in order for us to be together I would need to move. My mum has expressed how concerned she is if I was to go and down that. How upset she would be. I hate upsetting people, especially my family. It’s hard because I love this girl. But the decision to move is hard now as well. The girl has switched off me, and is trying to move on. But I can’t