I don't talk about my relationship to anyone but when I broke up with her my friend told me she's kinda manipulative that she's telling we can be friends but she will device when

And months later I discussed it with another woman at work and She also said that's manipulative of her

And I was very confused by it at first I brushed it off when my 1st friend told me about she's not being good to me after break up I thought she was just saying some stuff to support me

But idk this 2nd woman I was talking with she said the same thing and in the same words so it is got me curious if other woman on Reddit could confirm and that if that's the case

For me I think she genuinely thinks that at some point she would want to be friends again I guess? I don't think she said that to manipulate me or maybe I'm wearing rose tinted glasses so I am blind to her flaws ? Idk we did had ugly falling tho and it was her who walked away from the relationship

Edit:

For specifics she told me that she acknowledges that I have changed and improved a lot since I got close to her

And she told me that she's gonna leave a door open for the future to feel comfortable with me again she wants both of us to improve on our communication skills and she told me she wants to work on her own self and when feels ready she will reach out to me

We both had our issues tho in many ways I was a bad bf but in some ways she was a very stubborn gf too XD