Around 6 days ago I decided to send my ex 23F - (she broke up with me 4 months ago) a message saying I had written something and I wanted to share it with her once I felt like I had made progress. 2 days later she responded saying I should send it.

That same day, I sent it and she read it and said the letter is beautiful but she needs time to think and get back to me. A day after reading my letter, she posted something about her grandmother passing away. 3 days later she got back to me saying that she has not forgotten about me and she was sick on thursday and got a puppy on friday so she was busy to respond. She also said that she does not mind meeting me to talk and see where it goes.

I just responded saying that I hope she is better now and that her family must be super happy with the new puppy having that their last dog passed away some time ago. I also told her that from today onwards my evenings are mostly free apart from when I need to catch up with some friends for soccer and asked her when she is available. I did not give her my condolences and I am not sure if I should?

I dont want to come off as a stalker. She never mentioned it. But we do follow each other so she can assume I saw it. I sent the last message around 8 hours ago and Im still waiting for a response. Would it hurt to send another message to say something like “Hey, I also wanted to give my condolences, I hope you are okay and please take care of yourself first, I can wait.” ? Appreciate the advice - I do not want to overwhelm her or scare her away.