f/23 and my m/26 have been together for four years and in those years have found ourselves more and more and helped each other become at peace with our previous trauma and mental problem, we spend our moments together outside of work and we talk about everything together you know when you can give them that look after you hear some gossip and they know exactly what up and always know what’s on the other persons mind. and have had really scary near death experiences that have brought us closer than ever (she had preeclampsia with our son and almost didn’t make it,i have a blood disorder called alphathasemia ). she pushes me to be a better person than ever and always lifts me up when i’m down the same with her we both helped each other in life for a better and healthier life, she helped me quit my vices with nicotine the same with her along with drinking(both of us had our fun with wild teenage years that led us down the wrong paths before we met won’t do that again), we are both really mature for our age i’d say with finances,housing,and parenthood,lifestyle,ect. however a lot has changed since we first met we both where very immature and acted like the only thing that mattered was us but now we share a home and all of it’s duty’s and teamwork with our son along with a great relationship with each others family, we are slated to get