I [36f] has had a history of healthy relationships, sure there's occasional arguments but all relationships full of love, I just wasn't the right time of my life to want commitment, so I find reasons for them to not work. I'm starting to feel the urge to "settle down" in my mid 30's, got lucky enough to meet another amazing man [35m], who puts my happiness above his own, endless thoughtful little gestures, makes me weekly bouquets, cookes gourmet meals, reminds me always how great I am, and is kind and loving and patient to me. We've been together for a year and throughout we would bicker, but it's gotten worse, we always make up in no time, but arguments get heated fast, over something small. We recently had a talk about this and I resorted it to us drinking, he said we are both just passionate people. I understand every relationship is different but I don't know if this is healthy, and I also haven't loved a man this much in a long long time so I'm not ready to break it off as I would've with anyone else in my past. We are both positive, glass half full type of personality, so it's been hard to understand why situations turn dark so quickly. Hoping to get some clarity or direction by posting this.