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Me and my bf have been together for over a year and had our first fight recently. It was more of a we're both in a bad mood so took what the other was saying over text in the worst way kinda deal. We recognised what was happening and stopped, took a day to think about it then came together to talk about what happened and resolve it. All good.
But then he gave me a present out of the blue. It was a lovely sweet present, but I know he must have ordered it right after the fight. While I really appreciate the gift, I don't want him to think either: A) he has to buy me things whenever we have disagreement B) he can buy my forgiveness with gifts and that makes it all good
I don't know if I'm just overthinking it and worrying over things that have become issues in the past. If I did talk to him about it, how do I even go about that without sounding ungrateful? Or was it just a nice thing and means nothing else?
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