I love her so much and I want to start a family with her. I can't see her not in my life. But the sex is so boring!!! I've tried expressing that to her kindly and respectfully, but it always cause some sort of argument or she gets real sad. She always has the same excuse, being "you're too big". Now this is tmi but I'm just above average im not slinging a damn cucumber here. She's also just not into anything. It's the same three basic postions everytime. And whenever I try something new, she never likes it. I just want our sex life to have some more variety and fun. I just don't know what I should do. I don't wanna throw away our relationship, but I also just want an fun and exciting sex life with her. Any advice on what I could do?