We’ve been together three months, and have both confessed a desire to be together forever. I’m not the first to start a post with that and won’t be the last, but it’s been really good. She’s spending the day with a group of friends since one of them is in town visiting. I’ve been feeling a little left out today because I’ve met all of them a couple times now (with their SO’s as well) but she wanted to spend the day with just the friend group, I think because the one visiting goes home tomorrow. Fair.

I’m working from home (this is my off day but we are affected by the recent hurricane) and see that I missed a call from her 5 minutes before. I call her back, and the phone call goes like this:

GF: Hello?

Me: Hey, what’s up?

GF: I called you by accident

*Phone call ends.

It was like 8 seconds. I was excited to hear from her, so to just be told it was an accident and have the phone call end has left me feeling pretty hurt and devalued. Patience, thoughtfulness, and time we give to each other has been a huge hallmark of our relationship and this exchange felt like a 180 on that. I am not looking for validation of my feelings, but looking for a neutral perspective to weigh in before bringing this up with her, because I don’t have that right now. Is this something worth bringing up with her, and if so how can I go about it?