For context, my 28F boyfriend 31M and I have been living together for 4 years, together for all those years. There have been times that I’ve voiced my concerns to him and there has been some concerns he has voiced to me. Over those years nothing has seemed to change and I just realize we are two different people who aren’t good for each other long term and I don’t want to be with him anymore.

We still live together and got into a fight this week. We’ve been avoiding each other for a few days now and I just don’t care to talk to him anymore. I don’t live around my family and none of my friends are available and I’m feeling lonely. How can I deal with this part of my relationship right now?