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Could rlly do with insight or advice or perspective.
I'm being seeing someone for about 5 months but we only made it official this month. It's my first relationship. We are mid distance so most of our relationship is over text/call and seeing other/ staying the night together a few times. I struggle emotionally in general, due to having intense mood swings and being an empath, things hit me a lot harder.
When we first got together he was very accommodating to my emotions, even if I was unreasonable. Even though he didn't call me out I've since changed a lot and made a lot of improvement for the both of us to communicate more healthily and stop fighting. I tend to navigate fights and emotions and help him communicate better.
The issue is he doesn't try to like, consider me or reassure me when he's communicating even thought I've asked for this so many times. has a habit of making me feel shitty/ too needy and then apologising. All bc he can't regulate his feelings. He's passive agressive and blames me instead of saying can we talk, nd bringing smth up.
I'm so tired of begging him to do better, of navigating us, of crying everyday. He apologises profusely and says he'll do better but nothing is changing. I'm so confused and hurt. Where do I draw the line.
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