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5 years together, is it normal that my (27F) boyfriend (27M) hasn’t ever bought me something or make me surprises?
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Not a single rose. I’m not asking for a beach villa, but a 1$ rose or a box of cheap chocolate would be okay, I would appreciate the fact that he thinks about me. I’ve always done something for him, little meaningful gifts, acts of service (I love to make a delicious breakfast with plenty of different plates on weekends, or making his fav dish when he craves it. He has never done anything for me and when I’ve tried to tell him, he said that I am superficial for thinking about this.

He has the money because his job pays him well. When he has to spend dollars on video games, he’s not hesitant. But for a 1$ rose I’m the one who is superficial. My salary is half his. This makes me sad, but the thing that makes me sadder, is that I’ve told him various times that it would make my day, but he keeps ignoring me.

What would you do in this situation?

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