This is our third bout of arguing about sex. She’s a workaholic and she has been clear to me that sex is here only way to decompress , she also doesn’t have hobbies etc. if she doesn’t get it … she’s just unpleasant to be around. I love sex like any other person but I suffer from GAD and health anxiety, and take medication (propranolol ) and when Im having an attack or have had an anxious day … I’m not horny. Also I have so many outlets to decompress as she calls it , I exercise and run , I DJ and make music, I draw and paint , video games and skate and swim. She guilts me all the time that I don’t satisfy her … And now she has told me she’s getting desperate .. and we need to find out how to work things out .. she said either open relationship , separate or she doesn’t know. I don’t want either of those … other than dec life … our life is amazing , but apparently it’s a big thing for her … we just got married and started living together last year. Of course things change … we use to be a long distance relationship and see each other every two months for 3-4 days … of course fucked liked animals and made the most of it … but now we work , we have stress, we have a routine … rbi te change .. now we have sex once every week or two weeks , sometimes more , sometimes less . I love her so much and would not like to loose her . Any advice?