This last weekend was my husband's 40th. I took him away abroad and threw a legendary party for him with family and friends he has not seen in years. I planned it out perfectly from the beginning to the end, I made gift favours, and quizzes and we all had a total and complete blast from start to finish.

This past year we have been at odds quite a bit- mainly because I have been planning this party for months and I havent felt appreciated at all on his end. He didnt know the half of what I was planning and I think after seeing what I had done he felt great regret on his end for taking me for granted. It has been many things from helping me with simple things to having a wandering eye- we've been arguing about that recently up until last week.

During the trip he did not have a wandering eye whatsoever despite gorgeous women being everywhere. As I stated, I think he had deep regret for the treatment this past year. He continued to tell me how beautiful I am and since then he has been super nice and lovey dovey with me... so that is why I don't really want to approach him about the following:

I invited a friend of mine who - the night I met him was there- she lives abroad. We were living abroad at the time as well. We started to date and she was very jealous. In fact, one night we went out us three and she was pushing me aside to talk to him. At the time, he entertained her advances and I was very uncomfortable. I had expressed this to him several times and it led to many an argument. I ended up distancing myself from her. Later on she met someone and was much more agreeable. He and I got married we had kids and she did the same with the man she met.

We moved on.

We hadnt seen her for 7 years and I invited her and her husband. We were all together this weekend and she continued to say how great I looked. But I also noticed her blatantly staring at my husband. Her husband is a handsome man but they continued to complain about one another all weekend. She would stare at my husband quite a bit and so obviously. He did not entertain but there was one point at dinner where I sat between them and they leaned behind me to talk to each other. They were talking about work, okay...but because of the past it made me uncomfortable.

In addition, there was a moment where a gorgeous bachelorette party sat at the table across from us, and the bride went up to my husband (who was wearing a crown for his 40th birthday) she went to speak to him in her foreign tongue and he said "I dont understand you" and she said "cheers" and cheered with him. It was clearly a dare but he seemed quite content about it thinking probably that he "still has it". When I told him it was probably a dare (which it was), he seemed upset.

Despite this incredible weekend that left me on a high, I am still so uncomfortable about these two occurrences. any advice on whether or not to approach him?