Me and my Girlfriend has been together for 1,5 years now and we live together since about 7 months back. I am a very driven person, who recently (about 2 years) started my own business as a IT-Consultant. I Also have a lot of hobbies, i love to paint, workout, play computer games, watch movies, cook food and so on.

She on the other hand has absolutely no hobbies accept "drinking wine" (witch is what she herself says). This wouldnt normally be an issue but recently i feel like i have become her hobby. She always wants to do something with me and if she cant because I'm busy she literally just spends the entire day napping in the sofa while watching some soap show. Pretty regularly i can also notice she gets annoyed when i don't want to hang out with her because of my hobbies/work even if she says its not an issue.

I have tried suggesting hobbies for her or stuff to do and even suggested we paint together, but then she also just gets annoyed at me. She also talks a lot about wanting to start to work out but whenever i got her to come along to the gym she does a few sets half heartedly and then just sits in the gym waiting for me to finish.

She also hates cooking food, so i am the one always cooking and i tried explaining to her that if she cooked sometimes instead, that would save me some time on my hobbiers/work so i could spend more time hanging out with her that day but that didnt really work either.

I still love her, but what really got me thinking is that this has somehow spilled over into my sex drive, and i am starting to feel less sexually attracted to her. (i should add she is def objectively still gorgeus, even if she doesn't work out).

I am at my wits end and have started thinking about breaking up. So this might just be a last resort/hail mary post to see what people think. Anyone been in a similar position? I Also realize while actually typing this all out that it must look like an obvious break up, so maybe thats where i should lean. and maybe im just hesitating because im afraid of the conflict.

I should add that i do still love her, and miss her the few times she is away.