My gf tells me all the negative stuff wrong with her life but when I try to help, to work with her to be healthier and give back to the healing she gave me. I just get brushed off so often I’m losing it, I had a nervous breakdown the day before yesterday cause I couldn’t tell what I even was in her eyes, a gf or a nagging second mom or a high maintenance freak. I don’t even know.

How do I bring up the we need to talk to someone that brushes off or laughs off everything?

It’s everything from not even shutting me down when trying to help her eating disorder (If she wanted me to stay out I would’ve out of respect) to just ignoring how often I question myself around her. I just can’t, I love her so dearly but I don’t know how to do anything right. It’s my first relationship. I’m doing something wrong right? I’m sorry, I’m just overwhelmed, I just want to be a team and for her to be healthy and safe and happy. I…I’m just gonna try to sleep this off.