Hi there!

I have been guilty of spending all of my free time with my boyfriend since we got together. I have been messaging and keeping up with friends but I feel bad as I don't want to be that girl, so I want to try and spend more time with them.

I said this to my boyfriend and that I want to dedicate a night a week to spending time with them. He said that I want to spend less time with him. I don't think that's fair.

My boyfriend is quite insecure and has a bit of baggage around relationships due to multiple relationships with cheating. We've been talking and working through these. I can understand why he might feel how he does, but I feel like he makes a lot of things about him/our relationship that aren't.

What can I do/say. I love him and I've never met someone I love as much, but I could really use some advice. How can I approach this with him?