Hi,

So a few weeks ago me and my bf were doing just fine, doing amazing, just being all lovey dovey and just being normal.

Then he started being a little more distant but he assured me nothing happened it was just some stress.

Then 2 weeks ago he told me we needed to talk, he tried to break up with me, he said he was in a bad place and he didn’t wanna drag me down, we talked a lot and stayed together

Now ever since we have barely hung out, we barely talk, he then confessed he was slowly losing feelings because lately all I’ve been doing is complaining (I’m going through a rough thing myself and was mostly venting to him) which ofc hurt and hit like a brick.

Last night we were having another talk and he told me once again “I don’t have romantic feelings for you rn, I’m feeling numb” and I got sad, he noticed and asked me what it was and I told him how he would feel it it was the other way around me saying that to him, he admitted he would be heartbroken, that he would wait for me.

And I have been patient for 2 weeks but I get no communication unless I pull it out of him, and I don’t mind him trying to get better, I’m with him through good and bad, but the no communication is getting to me.

I’m a chronic overthinker, abandonment issues, feel like no one loves me type of person, so all of the love and attention I got now being gone has taken a toll on me, I’ve been bedroting for the past 2 weeks, barely ate or drank anything, been mostly only leaving my room for bathroom.

I don’t know what to do anymore because he even told me himself he doesn’t know if he’s gonna love me like before or if his feelings will be gone, and idk what to do, because if I stay and we end up breaking up I sent myself through hell for nothing, yes my friend will be better but my heart will get broken but if I don’t stay and his feelings are still there i abandoned him when he needed me Most

He is my first true love, and we are together for almost a year, and going from litterally planning our future together to this is just breaking me