Okay so 2 days ago my girlfriend unfortunately had kidney surgery, it went well and I’ve spoken to her and everything since then sometimes she’ll be out of it a little bit because of what the hospital gives her for the pain but that’s the background of it okay ~ today we’ve been talking but guess what TODAY is my birthday ?! Thank you guys in advance lol. We have been texting and snapping. Her birthday about a month ago I told her happy b birthday on the first minute like I adore her, but she hasn’t even acknowledged my birthday AT ALL, nothing and I don’t really care for gifts or anything you know obviously she’s in the hospital right I don’t even care when she says it just acknowledge it, it’s like with you not doing that you’re basically telling me consciously and subconsciously you don’t care as much as I do because I told her today was my birthday like less then a week ago and I would get it if it wasn’t for the dagger that makes me think like fuck it man, SNAPCHAT literally shows you the ICON you literally can not miss it. And if you’re awake and lucid what is going on you can’t just say a simple happy birthday like it’s more of the principle of it, it’s the most basic shit ever. With her circumstances like I don’t wanna hurt her right now but I’m gonna just sit by and ignore how I feel about it ? I keep trying to tell myself no she’s out of it she doesn’t realize but man the Snapchat clearly tells you it’s like walking outside and you dont understand that it’s raining out it’s right in front of you. So like I just haven’t been barely responding to her I just don’t know what to do if I should bring it up just cut it off with her not care I don’t know. It’s just like more about if you care about someone you tell them that right so I’m thinking subconsciously she really doesn’t give a shit even if she forgot and even worse if she does see it which I’m 99% sure she did don’t know how you miss it that’s even worse. Cuz I’m not gonna deal with people who don’t care I’m gone. But my question to people is what would you do in this situation if you were me ?