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I (26F) and him (26M), made plans to have a day trip together to another country. No booking required because it's just taking a bus over a bridge to reach another country.
His habit is sleeping in late into the late morning/afternoon. However, I'm an early bird. We agreed to meet at 7am at a train station. Usually he would text me that he is on the way etc. Till 6.55am still nothing. I texted and called him but still nothing. I was guessing he overslept. It really hurt me. I felt disrespected and low priority. (It's not the first time he is late, but this is the most drastic one, sometimes he is late for about 5 min or so)
He texted back at about 7.10am. But I'm already at home and I was too upset to go with him at a later timing in which he suggested it.
He did apologize, but only after giving a ton of reasons like he didn't sleep well, wake up a few times at night, etc. He also told me he heard his alarm but he snoozed it. That saddened me even more, because through this, I felt like I am nothing to him. I asked him back if he would do that if he has early morning exams. He said no. This just means I am not important enough to him.
It has been 1 year 1 month since we started dating.
Can I have some advice on how I should handle this situation please?
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