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My boyfriend (25M) keeps telling me “he doesn’t deserve to be with me and he deserves to be alone.” Is he trying to break up with me? (F 22)
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So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about three months, and we’re kind of in a long-distance relationship. However, im moving to a city that is only 15 minutes away from where he lives in about two weeks in order to go to school, so we technically won’t be long distance anymore. Anyway, today we were FaceTiming for about two hours and everything was going great until all of a sudden he started saying stuff like he was a loser, he was pathetic, ect. He does this once in a while because he has some pretty bad self esteem issues which he has been working on, and every time I’m always understanding and I always re-assure him on how amazing a person he is. Today he was feeling pretty bad about himself so I told him that we could hang up the call if he wanted to just relax since we had been on FaceTime for a pretty long time. After we hung up, we were texting and he’s been saying stuff over and over again like how he can’t believe that I actually love him and how he’s afraid I’m going to find someone better. Of course it’s totally not true because I love him so so much, but his last couple of messages said that “he doesn’t deserve me and he only deserves to be alone.” When I reassured him that of course he doesn’t deserve that, he said it again, and after I reassured him again, he left me on read. I’ve been on read for about 20 minutes now, and now I’m like wtf, is he subtly trying to break up with me? Cause why would someone say that they don’t deserve to be in a relationship? I feel like the follow up to that is going to be him wanting to break up and I don’t know what to do.

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