My wife and i have been together almost 16 years. I have suffered with depression over the past 3 years. My moods are up and down and i know i have not been easy to be around at times. She asked me to move out and said she needs to work on herself as she feels unhappy and she cannot cope living with me any longer as it is negatively affecting her mental state. I understand the damage i have caused, but i sincerely love her with all my heart and she is amazing. I had began making good progress taking steps to better myself and get the old me back but she said i need to work on myself alone as she is beginning to resent me. She said that when i kissed her the other week that she did not feel anything from it. Something she always loved knowing we had together that after all this time together we still fancied one another. For her she feels that is now gone and she does not know if she can get those feelings back. I want to change for myself and be me again first and foremost. I would love and hope that when i do that there could still be a chance for us to get those feelings back. Well for her to get those feelings back. Am i stupid and not thinking clearly or could there still be hope ?