So ive had custody of our daughter for 4 years now and its her first year of kindergarten. My daughters mom convinced her coworkers im a pos and she should have custody of our child. She convinced me to enroll our child into a school where her coworkers kids go. She picks up our daughter 2 days a week and is meeting the other parents and pretty much doing the same thing with them befriending them and telling her side of the story. Saying her domestic violence charge was justified bullshit, even though its a ongoing issue and she abuses our daughter when they are alone or its only us 3. Of course not in public or around her friends she cares far to much about her public/online image. I am unable to pick up or drop off our child due to work so its hard for me to meet other parents at school.

I can tell im already getting glares by some other parents and its really getting to me. I called her a couple days ago and she was meeting with the school principal saying i was neglecting our child because i let her wear her sweater to school and she thinks she is dressed to warm, then tellingher a bunch of lies like im smoking heroin and other shit. I dont think the school is convinced this point but im really stressing about it. She gets these people to side with her then their kids seem to be only allowed to hang out with my daughter when she is with her mom. I can see her trying to entice our daughter to be around her more by saying oh your friends want to play or come over and she will use that to put her in an uncomfortable situation, her home is not calm at all. Our daughter hates being over there and begs me not to send her there and shes only 5. I really only want my daughter to be happy and thought i could just ignore it, but it seems to be getting worse and worse. I need opinions on how to navigate this.