This is basically what the title says- I (20F) have been with my boyfriend (20M) for just over 3 years now. We have been together through a lot of different things together and he’s been there through all my mental and personal family problems.

We get along really well and he is my best friend. He’s basically perfect in every way except I have caught him either watching porn or paying for girls pics on at least 3 occasions. He genuinely is so sad every time, and he apologizes right away and promises to try to do better. He says he doesn’t know why he does it. I’ve asked if it’s because he isn’t feeling satisfied by me or in our relationship in some way, and he denies that.

Most of the time I find these is when I look at his phone while we’re listening to music ( I don’t normally look through it) and I see an email from an unknown subscription site.

I guess I’m just asking for some advice on what to do about this. I love him with my whole heart and I genuinely thought we were going to have our whole lives together. The only really bad thing is that and I’m not sure what to do.