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The person [19F] I [19M] have been seeing for about a year long distance hasn't added me back on snapchat after two days of adding her. Why hasn't she added me back yet?
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I met her on a dating app about a year ago, and since then, we have texted constantly for every single day. Ironically, we are both very introverted people who do not go out or socialize that much, so we really fit eachother! And, what's so great about her is that she puts so much effort into our conversations to where it almost feels like we are sitting next to eachother just talking face-to-face. Like full on paragraphs that fills pages. It's so weird because even with other girls I have dated in the past, I have never known someone as well as I do with my LDR person.

We haven't taken the next step yet in becoming boyfriend and girlfriend though, but I'm happy with that. We have been so busy with college and work... I think us just keeping what we have works best for our lives, but still exclusive. She even had to tell a guy at work recently that she was seeing someone haha.


So, two days ago on Snapchat, her profile appeared on my quick add. I decided to add it, but she still hasn't accepted it.

From what I know of her, she doesn't use social media as much as most people. Her family lives a very traditional life, and she just doesn't know a lot of people either. As well with this... she has told me that I am the most far she has ever gotten with a guy when it comes to dating, and the only person she confides in. (My coping paragraph...)

But, I am just so confused as to why she hasn't added me back yet. When I texted her about it last night, and asked if this account was her's, she just told me "that's the right (name)!". I didn't push any further, but I feel kind of weirded out by this in some way. The green dot on her profile has been on this entire time too, so that means she has been active on her Snap in the last 24 hours. Therefore, she has been on her account at least once when I have added her.

My thoughts: 1. She just hasn't gotten to adding me yet. 2. She's scared of her family seeing she's snapping a guy 3. She has a boyfriend. 4. She doesn't like me. 5. She's not fully committed yet to add me on snap(?)

For #4, it would be crazy to me if she puts so much effort into our conversations, only to be playing it off... so, I think that's the one I have most doubt in. For #3, she would have to hide me pretty well from her bf just because we talk for hours every night.

I'm so confused on this topic. What do you guys think?

TLDR: A girl I have been seeing long-distance has not added me back on Snapchat after two days of adding her. She said I added the right one, and has been online the past 24 hours, but still nothing.

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