This problem with my sister has been life altering for me and is seriously affecting my mental state.

Let me sum up my sister and i’s relationship for you before November 2023.

My 18 year old sister I’ll call her Julia. And i have another sister a year younger I’ll call her Carrie.

For some info on myself. I’m in college and i live at home with my parents now. I am in the middle with politics. Grew up going to catholic school and church but now I am an atheist in secret. i am also a pansexual gal and all my friends are LGBT.

To sum this beginning part up, I wanna say that all Julia’s life she’s had severe anger problems. Like screaming throwing things etc. she tried therapy in 2022 but she said “it didn’t work for me”. My parents know of her severe anger but turn the other cheek as they “don’t wanna hear about it”.

Me and Carrie have been dealing with emotionally abusive anger from Julia our whole lives. From 2018-November 2023 Julia has always been a liberal, she always was crazy supportive of trans and gay marriage etc. she also was super into spirituality and crystals etc. she identified as bisexual as well. she was an atheist for years and hated church. (My parents are Christian but don’t push it on us) keep this in mind.

She also is NOT a virgin by any means and has snuck guys into our house multiple times. Keep this in mind.

To jump forward, in November of 2023 she and her long term boyfriend broke up. She then started talking to one of her male acquaintances she knew. I’ll name him TJ. So my sister Julia and TJ met in November and started dating. TJ is 19 by the way.

I loved TJ at first. My sister started to become happier. I was away at college but we got along well. Her anger slowly going away. But this all took a weird turn in December 2023 on Christmas break. I come home for Christmas break. Me and Julia are hanging out and getting along. She then informs me she has been going to church an TJ has introduced her to Catholicism.

This was a big shock to me since (i mentioned before she was an atheist liberal all of her life) but i was very happy for her. Until she started talking about it.. during Christmas break she was going on about how she no longer supports the LGBTQ community. And she told me she stopped having sex til marriage. Mentioning to me that sex before marriage is a sin. And how she is not bisexual anymore by the way. She mentions anything in any sexual nature or anything with vulgar nature including music is a sin. (If you remember from above this is very different on how she was before). But she started pushing this on me. Berating me On how i need to go to church and i will go to hell if not.

This Christmas break i felt super uncomfortable and wierd. She also came to me and mentioned that she is a hardcore republican and conservative now. I was shocked by this too.

Jumping to now may of this year 2024. I started to notice that on TikTok her Julia and her still boyfriend TJ have started reposting some intertwined videos on their tiktok profiles. May not seem like a big deal. But reposting videos about being prolife, how being trans is wrong, how they/them pronouns aren’t real, how gay marriage is a sin etc. that’s basically the best way to sum it up. They’ve been reposting these things since like the spring. Another thing she did was when my hamster died she said “womp womp” in the family group chat.

Now we move to July of this year. We were all on a family vacation. And this particular day, me, Julia and Carrie. All 3 of us sisters were sitting in the vacation airbnb. We were discussing having kids and how strange the feeling will be. Then Julia says this, “when i have kids i don’t want them to be trans” Me and Carrie are baffled that she said this.

And to sum it up this conversation. Julia was saying that there’s only 2 genders and she said gay and trans are a sin. She was saying that all liberals are crazy and brainwashed. And she kept saying “people with colored hair are crazy and brainwashed” She was saying she doesn’t understand multiple genders and she doesn’t understand pronouns. She said being LGBT in a sin and you need to ask god for forgiveness. She mentioned that if she messes up someone’s pronouns she doesn’t care. Also Julia was saying she’s a Catholic and she believes in the truth and she doesn’t want people to sin. She was like “i can’t associate with people that believe in 72 genders because that’s a sin. I like gay people but it’s a sin and you need to ask god for forgiveness if you’re gay or trans because it’s just wrong in the Bible” She said “Jesus is coming back and the revelation is coming back and Jesus is coming back soon and the end of the world is happening”

Basically me and Carrie just sat in shock and didn’t really say much. I told her that’s wrong and rude to say and she said “i don’t care about people’s feelings.”

So ever since this conversation she still continues to repost horrible videos especially the @daterightstuff videos and videos about that religious guy named cliff. Her boyfriend TJ also reposts Jordan Peterson and Andrew Tate TikToks.

She also has become SUPER rude to Carrie and I. Everyday we have an argument about dishes cleaning etc.

This has ruined my mental health. Everyday she makes a comment about liberals or “trans people in the Olympics” etc. and im stuck. I’m not sure what to do anymore. How can I live my life without losing my mind? (I’m moving out in a few months)

TL:DR sister was a spiritual liberal her whole life. Meets new boyfriend and now she’s super alt right conservative catholic.