Me and this woman are in the “figuring things out” phase after hooking up one night. She lives 90 minutes from me but has been very clear she wants to see more of me. We met in the middle once and she came to me once so far. We met an even we hooked up at, and since haven’t done anything like that.

She’s made a couple small gestures like leaning her head on my chest while we were hanging out but I’m just so inexperienced and a little hesitant since I just feel I don’t know where it’s going. I am into her, it’s more how far she lives and how busy I’ve been lately. Not so much something wrong with her. Plus it’s the lack of experience making moves even if they seem welcome.

I’m just wondering what to do so she doesn’t think I’m not into her when she does things like that and I sort of freeze up. To be honest I think she wanted something more that night but I just sort of froze and kept watching TV next to her.