So me (m21) and my gf (f21) will have been dating for four years this October. We have a pretty healthy relationship and have been living together for the vast majority of our time together.

Recently I’ve noticed we’re always bored, and when I say that I don’t mean we’re bored of eachother, I mean just bored in general as in we don’t know what to do. We both have hobbies, I enjoy music, gaming, and cooking. She’s into puzzles, drawing, horror/crime shows/movies. But we’ve just been having trouble finding fun stuff to do lately.

We live in a one bedroom apartment but are hopefully looking to put a down payment on a house sometime next summer. That being said we don’t have many options for outdoor activities. We occasionally go on walks but that gets boring after doing it for a few days.

We’re really looking to save money for the whole house thing so we aren’t really looking to go out a few times a week and spend money on bars/food/games.

Before anyone asks, our sex life is fine. It’s our boredom outside of the bedroom that’s the priblem.

As far as our work schedules go we don’t have any days off together but we both work dayshift so we spend every afternoon/evening of the week together. We’ve just gotten tired of the same things, watch a movie, go for a walk, I play a game while she does her own thing etc.

It just seems like we’re stuck in a rut and I’m curious if anyone’s else has gone through this, and what did you do to help it? Please feel free to ask any questions of I left any details out.