We recently went up to her cousins cottage for 5 days. Her cousin is working on building a large shed. A month before we went she already volunteered me to help put up the roof with her father and cousin.

At this point in our relationship even though we have been dating for almost 2 mo ths we have barely had any sexual encounters with eachother. I became good friends with a close friend of hers and he told me that this is the first relationship that she hasn't been very sexually active in.

My gf also doesn't initiate anything between us. The only reason we kiss is because I go up to her and initiate.

Going back to the cottage, all I have been doing for the past 4 days is wake up as she basically kicks ne out of bed, i go help her family put up that roof where I have to climb on a ladder up to the top of a shipping container, have dinner with NY gf and her family than head back to the trailer to my gf who has earplugs in and doesn't want to be cuddled or touched the entire night and repeat.

Her family want me to get up at 8am or sometimes 6am to help with the roof but my gf sleeps into 11am everyday and is happy when I leave and gets the bed to herself.

When my gf finally wakes up she walks up the hill and sits on the chair watching us as we work instead of helping.ir just goes to the back porch of the main cabin and relaxes until where done 3 or 4 hours later.

Last night we sat down ti watch a movie and altho she sat on the same couch as me she sat far apart from me.

She has shown that she does care about me and has helped me allot these past few months and I do still love her but it's starting to feel like she came down to relax at the cottage and I was only brought here for free labor.

I'm sore and tired from worming everyday I am here so far and am just starting to winder if I am being used or if this is just expected behavior for a couple. Do you have any advice.

For context I'm a 26 hear old guy and she is 25. We are both not in the best shape. She also takes allot of pills that make her tired and can't lift allot of heavy things for medical reasons.