maybe we just aren’t a match? i want more effort(24f and 27 m)

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sxinthecity is looking for a female

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so i (24f) am talking to this guy (27m) and we have been getting along well. in person our conversations flow quite naturally and our dates always last 3-4 hours because neither of us want to leave the conversation. he’s sweet and funny and i could see us taking things to the next level, BUT he is not great via text communication and i am starting to feel like i am the one driving our connection….

we are both a few months out of our previous relationships and have spoken about taking things slowly. we haven’t kissed yet and physical intimacy is also lacking but i don’t want to rush into anything(i also want him to make the first move)

i want to bring it up to him, but im not sure how. he works multiple jobs, so i understand that texting is hard to make time for, but we have been on three dates now and i think i asked him out on the last two. i want someone passionate that makes me feel wanted and im starting to question if he can be that kind of person with me. what should i do?

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