Don't mind my username, only joined reddit for the NSFW stuff. This will be long, but anways, I have been with my fiancé for 6 years next month, we got engaged in June because I thought it would fix things. She has an almost 12 year old and we have an almost 5 year old together. We actually broke up before she was pregnant with our child because she didn't give me the affection I want. We got back together because it was nice again and then she got pregnant. It's been a rollercoaster ever since. I want the hugs and kisses and affection. She will do it for a while and then stop, I'll let it pent up for a while and then we get into arguments and then it's better for a little while again. Fast forward 4 years to today, or well, back to the engagement, (We don't live together, but live 1 block apart, I've lived with a woman before as she's lived with a man and I'm not moving in until we're married and she's ok with that, actually prefers it), she was hesitant, which I knew she would be because she's said she doesn't necessarily want to get married, but is not against it, so I did it. So I could live with her and my two sons. Ever since then, the ring doesn't fit, and I bought the care package to get resized for free, she won't go get it resized, and she rarely wears it, because it's "loose," so I wrapped stri g around it and it was almost infuriating to her that I was trying to fix it, and I don't anymore, but at first, I would point out when she wasn't wearing it and she would have some other excuse, and it would break my heart. Since the engagement also, whenever I go to her house, which is every day after work and come home when the kids go to bed, she is always happy happy joy joy talking to whoever else until I either say hi or ask a question and her mood and/or tone automatically changes and it's real shitty. I've asked her about it before and she either doesn't answer or changes the subject. We havent had sex since 1 week after the engagement when we were in Mexico, and it used to be a weekly thing. But this time, getting into arguments doesn't lead to things being better for a short while. She's constantly having some sort of attitude towards me and I don't know what to do. If we didn't have a child together, I'd already be gone, but I can't fathome not seeing him every day. We work for the same company and she goes to Chicago, where our headquarters is, two hours away, once or twice every couple weeks and I'm either worried getting engaged isn't fixing what I thought it would, or she's doing something she's not supposed to while up north. Either way, do I stay and be miserable or leave and only see my son every other weekend? I'm almost over it and need help either staying on this side of the fence or a hand to jump over. Thanks for reading.