Unfortunately he told me this information when I didn’t ask for it over time and his family and friends make fun of him for his behaviour before me He frequently had casual sex-met up with women for sex only and had these girls live with him even With me he “made us wait” until 4 dates before we had sex I wanted to have sex and he wanted to wait but he agreed in the end on the 4th date after saying no initially. (I didn’t know he acted like that before at the time) I feel upset that he did this Apparently these girls were trash He had them live with them He caught STI (treated) from them His parents always bring up his past and how they had to chase them out of the home I feel like sex is not special and it’s not cute when he says that he’ll play hard to get or will say sex stuff to keep it just feels cheap like he has no standards so why even joke about it

One girl lived with him as a sex buddy for a year

Addit the fact that he considers them trash is what upsets me that he would have sex with someone like that (yes they did do some trashy things also but I don’t feel necessary to explain e.g. did sex things with other men in front of him)