I (20m) am in a committed relationship with someone (20m) and we haven't labeled it, but boyfriend would be the best way to describe it. He is over 400lbs and I'm about 135lbs.

Whenever he rolled onto my head last night he wouldn't move. I was struggling to breathe and my collarbone dislocated, so when I tried to hit him as a signal to wake up my shoulder wouldn't reach and my other arm was stuck underneath him.

I was flailing around as much as I could, but it still didn't wake him up. I felt like I was under there for an hour, but in reality it was probably more like 10 minutes. He did wake up when his alarm on his phone went off that he happened to accidentally set 6 hours earlier than he meant to.

When he woke up I wasn't sure what to say, but I didn't want to completely lie when he asked me what was wrong. I told him that he accidentally rolled over onto my head. He felt bad about it, but I told him that I was ok.

After he left this morning I went to the ER because I have a black eye, concussion symptoms, and a stiff neck. The doctor said I'll be fine and I might have a concussion. I'm still freaking out though. I know I'm fine, but I'm still very scared about the situation for some reason.

I'm not sure that I want to sleep next to him again for a while, but at the same time I don't know if he'll understand why I feel that way without me giving him the full story. I just don't think giving all the details is necessary at the moment. He'd probably feel bad about something that wasn't even his fault and I wouldn't feel any better about the situation.

I'm still processing everything, while my head was being crushed I thought I was going to die. It was terrifying. I have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, so I'm lucky that I wasn't hurt any worse than I was. I have no idea how to handle this moving forward. Would it even be worth it to make a big deal out of the situation?

TLDR: My (20m) boyfriend (20m) rolled ontop of my head in the middle of the night and almost suffocated me. I told him that he only rolled onto my head and that I was fine. I'm planning on telling him that I don't want to sleep next to him for a while, but I'm unsure if I should give him the details.