Idk if I’m being gaslit or maybe it’s just me being crazy... My [25F] boyfriend [28M] of 11 months came over last night and this morning we discovered there were some fraud charges from when we went out during the weekend. He calls the bank and then hangs up because he got tired of the phone Automator (but who isn’t thou?) and says he going to his car to call them back. I thought it was odd because why not just go to the living room? Why go all the way to your car? I live in a high rise apartment so going down to the first floor then walking a block to your car seemed a bit much. I told him that’s weird to do all that and he said he also wanted to call about a job opportunity, get fresh air because he’s been in all day, and that it would be 20 mins tops and that I’m just nagging and after a little bicker and kisses he leaves. After 30 mins he calls saying he’s stressed out because his mom needs him to return back today (they both work in a clinic in another state) because they are short staffed. I try to be positive/ supportive on the call and then asked about the bank call and job opportunity and he said he didn’t call them yet and that he will. Cool. 10 mins go past and he calls me saying he’s just gonna go to the bank instead to get his situation sorted. 40 mins later I text asking if everything is went well he said everything went smoothly. I replied asking him to FaceTime me because I found an item we spent all morning looking for. When he calls which is like 3 mins later he’s outside of some apartments? I’m a bit confused because I thought you just came from the bank? He also had a cigarette lit so I’m like you had time to smoke a cigarette go to your friends house and go to the bank all in 40 mins? He’s not even excited that I found the item or had any enthusiasm about it. I don’t try to start an argument so I just ask which friends house he’s at and he doesn’t answer the question and says I always try to pick fights and then I tell him it’s normal for me as his girlfriend to ask which friends house he’s at. He says it’s his friends “Stephen’s” house. The things is my boyfriend used to live in the city we’re currently in and we have actually dropped Stephen off at his HOUSE before not apartment. Sure Stephen could have moved to an apartment in 2 months since we legit dropped him off in June. Whatever I don’t want to jump to conclusions so I ask what time he’ll be back and he said an hour so I tell him to just call me when he’s otw back and we end the call. It’s an hour later and it’s like how did 20 mins end up being a 3hr ordeal? I don’t want to jump to conclusions because me and him just had a whole argument about it and how I told him I’ll work on it. But also I told him if he didn’t want me to then communication needs to be better. I think he believes he’s doing so on his end by calling but it doesn’t explain the holes in what he’s telling me. I don’t want to start a fight because today is his last day and I also feel like maybe I’m the issue and that all that behavior is normal and maybe I’m projecting what I would do onto him.