(Sorry ahead of time for my poor punctuation ahead of time) ok if you missed the first part I made go read that to read that for context this is a continuation of that

I’ve started to emotionally detach from her and started to call her bestie because a lot of what she does doesn’t make sense like “taking her gay work husband to vacation with her” she said he was married which I forgot to add last post but she didn’t say that the other guy was going just the gay work husband which is weird and since we’re in a long distance relationship and right now I have the opportunity to move up there which at every turn she has denied she did say that she had a couch I could sleep on till I got a job and an apartment up there but she said no even though she said that she let a “childhood friend” sleep on the couch she didn’t say how long though and whenever we’re texting she’ll disappear anywhere from 1 hour to up to 6 hours (today was 14 hours and said her phone didn’t notify her of my text) which is odd but back to what I was saying I started calling her bestie and say that she’s extremely busy and she doesn’t seem to like that and say that she is never to busy to talk but disappears for hours I don’t want to say she’s entertaining other guys because you know I trust her but with what she’s doing sure is making it seem like it and she has been prone to lying because she has before and what she lied about came to light because she told me herself so I need advice on what to do should I cut her off? If I do tell me how to do it gently or work it out if so tell me how to do that I’m at a lose because of her actions at this point