I (M)came home from work. My car told me my tire pressure was low. I grabbed the pump out the car and filled it up took maybe 5-10 minutes before I walked side. Because I chose to do this before coming inside and saying I was home, & didn’t walk inside, say hello, then go back out to air up the tire I am inconsiderate and disrespectful. This is exactly what happened. Am I missing something? Cause I feel that I did nothing wrong…I feel along with other things happening lately that she is attempting to control me or make it to where I’m constantly in trouble or owing her something for some behavior that in my opinion is just not even something I would ever consider in the realms of normal to be upset over. Like the other week my friend called me right about 11 when I get off work apparently who he has plans with for his birthday backed out so asked me to go to the bar with him and his sister. I said sure. I got home and she was sleeping. For many days she had had a massive tooth ache and In so much pain it was hard to watch. So I text her when I got there and saw she was sleeping and told her my plans BEFORE i grabbed a change of clothes and showered. Went back to see if she was awake, even spoke to her asking if she was awake which she admits later she heard but she doesn’t respond. I considered waking her up but chose not to because of the massive amount of pain just the night before she was in and decided to let her sleep. So I text her I was leaving, made sure my phone was on loud so I was reachable, text her where I was going and who with, sent her my live location that was shared indefinitely with her and left. I did not drink. This is the 2nd time in 2 years I’ve went out to do anything and the other time was with this same person. They got drunk for his birthday, I did not have any thing to drink. Bar closed they are drunk. I Tell them I’m going to take them home so I do. I get there talk maybe 10-15 minutes and start getting texts about me being a disrespectful fuk and have fun with my whores and what not so, instantly I try to FaceTime her to show her I’m with who I said I was and where I was at which was their house. She wouldn’t answer. Just cussed me and told me to not come home. Like this sorta thing continues happening more and more & it messes with me cause I know everyone is different and different things bother different people but I felt that I was very considerate and thoughtful in that situation & the absolute hell that transpired after that night lasted 6 days. I feel like I’m being manipulated and she is wanting total control and power over me. But then I think I could be in the wrong & I just don’t understand because I’m not her. What are you all’s opinions please am I missing something?