We've been together for around 2 years now. Our sex like tanked about a year and a bit ago when she started gettinf frequent UTI's. We got past those and it was better for a period of time but she has some self esteem issues which have put sex on a halt again. We usuallt see eachother maybe 1/2 days a week atm, although Ive been trying to make that more. We are planning on moving in together next year though. I love her so much and who she is, but the relationship has become really difficult. The lack of intimacy has made it a real challenge to even call this a relationship. Theres no sex drive there. I have sex drive but shes been struggling. I really dont know what to do. I had brought issues up before with her like hanging out more, intimacy etc. Of course she needs her time to heal and get better. She has started therapy recently and she did say she really enjoyed her first session. I am hopeful it could get better but this relationship is really hard on me mentally. It ruins my self esteem to lack any intimacy in the relationship, and my fear is that I'll spend another year or two and there'll be no progress made. I do love her and I would love to make this relationship work great as we do fit eachother very well personality wise. I dont know how to deal with my emotions regarding this as I just find myself getting really pissed off when we dont see eachother in a week or anything. We both work full time atm and live in seperate places. Any advice on how I can help the relationship/myself? Or does it seem like I should just break it off?