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Me 25 M from the UK and my Fiancie 21 M from the USA. Fiancie being charged for reckless driving (over 100mph in a 70. Should I break up with him?
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I'm 25 years old and I really don't know what to do or how to feel right now. Me and my Fiancie have been together now for 3 years with plans to get married this year. We were relying on him moving to the UK on a Fiancie visa.

The reckless driving charge feels like my fault, I am the one who helped for him a place out as he was going to be homeless. He was driving between Florida to his new place in New York - and the speeding charge is in WV, a state that don't take speeding lightly and are charging him criminally. He he gets found guilty for the crinimal charge (which seams likely he was going over 100) I just don't know what to do.

Like I want to support him and help him through it - but I also want to be with him, which if he's charge doesn't even seam possible anymore. Every plan I have been putting together for the last year to get him to the UK feels like a total waste and part of me just wants to end it with him. as much as I love him - I really do love and care about him he's been my everything for the last 3 years.

At the moment I can't even compose how much pain I'm in. Mentally. With this whole situation and I really don't know what to do. Should I break up with him over this?

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