My girlfriend(29f) and I(32m) are in a long distance relationship in the states she being far north and me in the Deep South on the gulf sorry for the poor grammar ahead of time. last week sometime she basically sent a weirdly worded text which sounded like she wanted to cut the relationship of she said something to the affects of “we’re both busy with our own lives” which concerned me and wanted to Know why she wanted to end the relationship for her to come around and say we aren’t broken up and everything but she prior to this and to this day she’s been kinda distant I partially do to her going to Disney with her family and ‘gay work husband’ and she’s been working to save up for her family and that gay work husband to go there then the other day she went of on she doesn’t want to hold me up from finding happiness but doesn’t want to break up and saying stuff like “Of course I want you to love me but it will hurt you more to love me” which is odd to say out of nowhere I think and keep asking how to make each other happy with the distance in between up I’ve said I’d move up there and sleep on a couch till I get my own place she basically said “I can’t do that to you even though I did it to a childhood friend” which is a first I’ve heard of that but I kinda need a second person view to see if I should just shut up and trust her because who lies like that so easily or should I call her out on it