Hello,

Would like some serious advice although I feel like I know what the answers is.

After a 2 year relationship, I have broken things off with my gf. Some context, we have been seriously dating for a year and had plans to move with each other by the end of this year. We both really wanted this and had a savings plan for it. We opened up a bank account so we both can set aside money and for us to see the savings growth.

The issue came when she asked why not sooner and why wait. My position was I was currently still in school, but mainly we should save so we have money in the bank and so we can be ready to purchase furniture etc. she agreed to it, but I know it bothered her. She kept asking if end of the year was still on and I said yes that’s the plan, (maybe where she got conflicted) when I would say yes that’s the plan and we will see where we are in terms on finance. She also just got a new job like 2 months new and I mentioned we should wait to see how that jobs does so we are both in a solid career position to support as we both didn’t make the best money living in California

Long story short, I caught her cheating, talking to another guy in secret. When I confronted her about it she denied it until I mentioned I knew what she was doing and then admitted he was his emotional support thru all this. I mentioned thru what?? And she said the emotional roller coaster about moving in.

No matter what I ended things pretty aggressively.

I want to reach out so we can end in some peace then I think, does she really deserve a peaceful conversation?

Please chime in

Thanks